Tag: random
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Lesson 1: Recognizing and Acknowledging Anger
As part of my new year’s resolution, I had decided to learn to control my anger and in turn, started to look out for ways to approach it: through reading, finding a meditation class, and taking time out from work. I’ve recognized that my anger comes from a direct contact with stupidity, ignorance, laziness, and…
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What Is A Job But A Game?
A job is a job is a job. At the end of the day, you know you need it to pay the bills. Growing up, my parents never talked about being happy or fulfilled at their job. They only worked to feed us, to have a roof over our head, to have a car to…
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Busy is a Decision
Debbie Millman: 10 Things I Wish I Knew Sooner Rather Than Later Recently, I went to a talk about rejection—in particular, how rejection can shape your life, hosted by Designers + Geeks. The speaker was Debbie Millman, the president of AIGA. She spoke candidly about her experiences that led up to her role, with lots…
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Empty Compliments and Empty Pockets
I always believed that love would be enough to keep a relationship binding. I believed that if I loved him enough, maybe even more a smidgeon more than him, I could keep the relationship together. I would shower him with compliments, praises, and gifts, and all my love. Isn’t that what all the movies have…
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Turning 30 in less than 24 hours
Technically, I finished my writing challenge already. However, I haven’t quite hit 30 so this is my last post as a 29 years old!
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Have Happiness, Will Travel
My goal in life has never been to have a family or get married. And it’s still pretty true. I want a child, I want love, but if I don’t have any of them, my life doesn’t end there. It goes on.
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How I Met Mr. Darcy
I love listening to couples recount their first meeting, especially those with mileage. More often than naught, the stories are retold with an element of comedy. One man said he would never marry an Italian woman but his wife of 40+ years is this soft spoken, gentle Italian woman, one-of-a-kind! How romantic that their first…